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I’ve done a lot of different jobs since I started working at 16. If I look back at my life and career, it becomes glaringly clear that the root of my work (and how I got here) is about watching, predicting, and responding to patterns. Which is why I want to make a prediction: decision fatigue is about to become the next big buzzword in productivity.

That’s not to say that it isn’t a well-known term already, it is. I’ve been coaching clients on it for years. It’s a cornerstone of why I build sustainable systems the way I do and have my whole life.

But I give it another ~3-6 months before the term starts to show up in every headline, every leadership deck, every wellness campaign, and more than a couple social media trends or viral moments.

Watch the signs with me. In the last several months:

  • Deloitte reported that decision friction has surpassed workload as the leading indicator of burnout — for the first time ever.

  • Harvard Business Review published research on something they're calling "AI brain fry."

  • Forbes just coined "decision debt."

  • Somewhere out there, "Burnout 2.0" is circulating.

  • And Google Search trends for “decision fatigue” started slowly climbing in fall 2025, and by June 2026 was up 426% year-over-year.

While the term “decision fatigue” was coined in the mid-2000s, it was famously highlighted in a well-known study on judicial decision-making in 2011 causing the first big increase in interest.

When four different publications invent four different names for the same experience within months of each other, that's not confusion. Nope, that’s a buzzword in its larva stage. Eventually the market will settle on one word, and the search data suggests it already has. The word that was coined originally: decision fatigue.

(Yes, I see the irony of the jargon generators working overtime to name the experience of having too much to process. The machine cannot help itself.)

The prediction is the easy half. It’s the thing that will get everyone’s attention.

But the headlines will skip something: the lab science underneath decision fatigue is messier than the articles imply. The original research — ego depletion, the idea that willpower is a fuel tank that drains with each choice — has had real replication problems. Some studies find the effect. Some don't. Scientists are still arguing.

And you know, intimately, what happens after work, standing in front of the refrigerator, unable to answer "what do you want for dinner" like it's an essay prompt in a language you no longer speak.

Both things are true. The mechanism is debated. The experience is not. The experience is real precisely because it was never just about willpower, but volume. The number of decisions a person is expected to process in a day has exploded. Work decisions, multiplied by AI tools. Life decisions, multiplied by infinite options. And underneath it all, the background hum of decisions demanded by a world that feels genuinely unstable.

Your brain isn't weak.
Your brain is over-subscribed.

Which is why I’m worried about the buzzword era we're about to enter.

I've seen this movie before. When burnout became a household word, the diagnosis was structural, but the prescriptions were individual. The problem got named as workloads and cultures and systems. The majority of solutions sold were bubble baths, morning routines, and resilience training.

The storm got named, and we got sold an umbrella.

And to be fair, nobody can stop the rain. The sheer volume of decisions coming at you was never, and isn’t now, a personal failing you could willpower away. But an umbrella only works while your own arm is holding it up. A roof keeps you dry while you sleep. Both count as shelter, sure. But one asks for effort once and maintenance over time, while the other only works when you do the entire lift every time.

Decision fatigue is lining up for the same treatment. The early advice is already circulating: limit your choices, be more disciplined, decide faster. In other words… the problem is that you're making too many decisions, so the solution is to get better at making decisions.

We are about to be told to decide harder. But deciding harder is how we got here.

The way through — the one I've watched work in my own life and in client work for years — is deciding less, by design. Building structures where a decision gets made once, on purpose, by a version of you that has capacity, so it doesn't get re-made every day by a version of you that doesn't.

And I have to be honest about the trap inside that, too, because the systems world (my world, hi, it's me) has its own umbrella problem. We were all taught to build systems like fortresses: pour in enormous effort up front, and expect to never face the problem again. Then life shifts. A season changes. A body has needs. The system asks for maintenance, because everything alive does. And we don't say "the system needs tending." We say "the system failed" or “I failed at using this system.” Now we're exhausted twice: once by the decisions, once by the shame.

I've done this. Repeatedly. Some of my finest fortress ruins have their own plots in the productivity graveyard.

A sustainable system isn't a fortress. It's closer to a garden. You build it once, yes, but it’s built with the expectation of being tended. Expecting seasons. Expecting the person maintaining it to be a human being with fluctuating everything.

And since you know my love of nuance, it’s worth pointing out that tending isn't the only thing a garden is for. Nobody plants a garden purely for the weeding.

The fortress model feels good when you hear it because it gives our exhausted brain something attractive: do this once and never worry about it again. But that simplicity gets something wrong about human beings. All of us, and my fellow neurodivergent folks especially, need routine and we rebel against it. Both things are true at once.

Novelty isn't a threat to the systems that help maintain our lives and work (we aren’t talking a factory production line here where novelty literally equals danger). Novelty here is a nutrient. Because a structure with no room for whim, for joy, for connection, for the random Tuesday obsession, won't get maintained. It gets abandoned. And then we call the abandonment a discipline problem.

So when I say sustainable system, I don't only mean one that survives maintenance. I mean one with room deliberately built in. Designed to flex with room to delight. Designed for the parts of your life and your business that keep insisting on being connected no matter how many times you're told to keep them separate. Your system's job should always be to support how you actually work. Your energy patterns. Your real capacity. And your actual life — routine, chaos, joy, and all.

So here's the one thought to sit with this week, before the buzzword arrives and the umbrella salesmen with it:

TO SIT WITH:

What decisions am I re-making every single day that a kinder version of my system could make once?

As always, it’s not about trying to become someone new. The goal is that every decision your system makes once is one your tired brain never gets billed for again.

Currently Obsessed

  • Delulu Threads: Remember the delulu thread-tapestry experiment I shared a couple weeks ago? Status report: the timeline was definitely not sustainable for what I was creating, so the chart got a life of its own, and is now pixel art they can frame. I’ve been working on this for a sisterhood of the traveling journal project that started in May with friends. This month, I’ll be working on a new one for the next person in the rotation. By next spring, I’m going to be able to add pixel art to my plethora of ADHD hobbies. 😂

  • My current decision fatigue combatant: Sometimes being neurodivergent takes away decisions because I get hyper-focused on safe foods. Right now, it’s protein coffee (combining this coffee, this collagen powder, and this protein shake), turning salmon salad (a la tuna salad) into a dip with cucumber and apple slices, and defaulting to salmon and broccoli in the air fryer — which is still the best, juiciest salmon filet I’ve ever made. All are easy, low energy, and take less than ~15 minutes from start to finish. Perfect for my current season.

  • Long Live Princess Donut: My partner started reading Dungeon Crawler Carl last month and asked me to read it with him. So now I’m deep into book two and finding a balance of reading alongside someone else after 4 years of (truly obscene numbers of books) reading solo. I’m excited that Seth MacFarlane’s company is behind the TV adaptation being made (The Orville was one of my favorite shows of the last decade), and has the potential to be a great live action, if budget is there. I will forever be a Donut and Mordecai stan first, but I can’t deny that I’m wholeheartedly behind the fan cast of Will Poulter as Carl.

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